There is no way around the fact that moms are busy writing lists.
Girls, do we have a ridiculous number of lists or what? Grocery lists, birthday party guest lists, bucket lists, laundry lists, you name it.
We’ve got the list checked off, crumpled up and sitting on the floor of our purses (next to a few pennies and a couple of raisins).
I have decided it’s time for us to blast these lists into high gear so we can settle down, level up and get more done!
These all-important little lists we moms create are quite simply the equivalent of our brains on paper. Without them, we find ourselves wandering aimlessly, knowing it’s someone’s birthday, that we are forgetting something – and feeling just plain anxious about whether or not we are doing what we should be in life.
I don’t know about you, but I lose sleep over this kind of stuff and although I just turned 25 again (for the fourth or tenth time) I need my beauty rest these days.
Add a business or two to this mix of lists and you have a recipe for some seriously unproductive days. Can you afford to have wasted hours, days, weeks or even months? Me neither.
Organization is the key to minimizing chaos and increasing order in your life, which means you get more done and you enjoy the ride.
Here are 7 Simple Tips to help you blast your lists into actionable steps (that you can take in slippers, stilettos or sneakers):
1. Use a yearly calendar to designate monthly productivity themes. This way, every month you can focus on strengthening one aspect of your business or life (ie: online marketing, customer service, team management, financial systems, joint ventures, etc). By the end of the year, you will have spent 12 months consciously building 12 areas of your biz.
2. Always schedule family time before business and honor this commitment. Mark down one-on-one time with each family member every week BEFORE you create your weekly biz agenda. This tactic makes your family and loved ones your top priority, while sending a message that they are more important than your work. This goes a long way when it comes to friends and family supporting your business.
3. Calendar out your weekly to-do list every Sunday night, choosing a maximum of two major tasks per day. There are only 24 hours in a day, and 8 of them you should be sleeping. You also need to make time to eat, exercise and relax every day, which realistically only leaves room for 2 major tasks (at most) in any given day. There is no sense beating yourself up about it; just accept what is humanly possible and plan accordingly! Two big tasks max per day.
4. Break down big projects into smaller tasks by setting time limits and deadlines you can commit to 100%. If a task requires more than two hours to complete, it probably needs to be broken down into smaller items. Be aware of this as you create your weekly to-do list and utilize a timer to stay on track.
5. Prioritize tasks into “Must Do ASAP”, “Must Do Today” and “If I Have Enough Time…” and follow their completion according to level of importance. Completing ASAP tasks first will relieve stress and keep you moving forward. Conversely, doing easy tasks first sucks the time right out of your precious schedule, keeping the big stuff looming over your head (can you say, “stress!”) and delaying you from accomplishing what REALLY needs to get done. So, do the hard stuff first for maximum productivity.
6. Block similar tasks into specific days of the week. For instance, only take phone calls on Mondays, in person meetings on Wednesdays, write on Tuesdays and Thursdays, etc. Many entrepreneurs take phone calls every day which can disrupt work flow and distract you from your schedule. Setting up specific days for designated activities will increase your productivity and keep you feeling on the ball.
7. Avoid the tendency to multi-task. Multi-tasking is actually another way of saying ADD. When your attention is split into several different areas, you cannot fully focus on anything and completing a task will take you longer. Stay focused on one thing at a time and you will achieve greater results.
Implement any one tip on this list and you will see a big difference in your productivity and output levels, but utilize all of these techniques and you will see a profound effect on every facet of your life.
The most successful entrepreneurs stay organized and motivated on the right path in life by beginning each day with the end in mind. Take 15 minutes every morning to practice visualizing your ultimate goal in every area of your life: relationships, career, health, family, spirit, community … and play an active role in how each day will bring you closer to your dreams.
Britt Michaelian, M.A. is an exhibiting artist, bestselling author, award-winning filmmaker and a mom entrepreneur. With a Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy and Art Therapy and as the Founder of Responsible Family Company and several other businesses, Britt has experienced firsthand the many ups and downs of starting and running a business while raising a family. Known as The Smart Start-Up Coach for Moms, Britt is now guiding moms through the start up phase of their entrepreneurial journeys. Sign up for free monthly Smart Biz Start-Up Q&A calls & the Work Smart Mompreneurs newsletter at brittmichaelian.com
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Love this post and so much great and relevant info… as a mom to be, I so appreciate all of this info- and will for sure be mindful of #2 when the baby arrives – I can only imagine how moms get busy with both but important to be mindful and take the time for both… thank you so much for sharing this!
Congratulations on the baby on the way, Brooke! You will find that scheduling in the family time first is a great way to make sure you are giving your baby all of the attention he/she deserves. It also goes a long way for that mom guilt (worrying that we aren't “good enough”). Enjoy your new little one and thanks so much for commenting!
Thank you Britt, this was a much needed post for me. As a mom of 3 little ones and starting a business I am very scattered and overwhelmed.
I loved your idea of scheduling time for family. I was a full time stay at home mom until a few months ago and my children often get confused on why all of the sudden mommy has meetings and works on the computer!
I definitely need to be more organized and this article gives actual, doable things to help me out in that department. I'm going to print this one out and begin to implement.
Thank you!
Michele
Loved the tip about trying not to multi-task. It's the new rule I'm focusing on today 🙂
Hey Michele!
Congrats on starting a new business! It's a lot like having a new baby isn't it? 🙂 I felt really scattered and confused when I first started my business (goes with the territory) and many of these tips were things that others recommended to me and I found that they actually worked! Glad you are ready to implement these action steps- that's the sign of a true go-getter. When we implement, things happen FASTER! Good luck and thanks for your sweet comment. Have a great day!
My to do list organization has got simpler and simpler … now I have 2 post it notes. one is my tasks for the week. the other is my tasks for the day, divided into 1 most important thing, a few business things, and a few personal things. Then I have a monthly paper calendar. and that's it. 🙂
I like it! Simple and low-stress. Just get it done! Whatever works is what you have to go with 😉
Thanks EPW!
Thank you Britt for the words of wisdom I needed on my friday! Visualizing works indeed, my nine yr. old even uses that technique for her goals!!
I agree about the tendancy to multi task. I do it way too much. Good insight and advice Britt!
Great Post! Organization is so important for balancing everything in your life! I love your your suggestions in #2! Thanks
Thanks Tammy! That's pretty impressive that you have your 9 yr old using visualization techniques! Way to go! 🙂
LOL. I think we all have a tendency to multi-task, but the key is to consciously make an effort to focus on those “Must Do” items so you can just get them out of the way. When we have three (or seven) things going on at once, our attention and output becomes diluted. Anyway, thanks for your comment! 😉
good points, thanks
Great post, so many easy things to think about but who has the time. Thanks for organizing them!
Shannon
Great helpful/useful tips. I especially love tip #5! I find if I can prioritize my tips I can get so much more accomplished in my day/week. I think the one tip that truly got me back on track was #7. I was wasting soooo much trying to do too many different things at once and never finishing anything. It was exhausting. The other thing I implemented to my to-do list: checking in once a week with my husband for a brief calendar meeting. It keeps us on the same page with commitments and important dates – which in turn makes plowing thru those to-do lists possible. Thanks Britt for all the great tips!
Great tips! I am guilty of multi-tasking to the extreme! I am going to try and focus on one thing today and see how it goes :).
Oh yes, prioritizing tasks is so important! Before I figured this out, I would do what was easiest and found that if I didn't assign a level of importance, the hard stuff never got done. Now we know better 🙂 And the weekly meeting with the hubs is a fantastic idea! We do this too and we also use iCal to publish our calendars online so that we can see what is on the agenda for the week/month etc. Google and Yahoo have a similar calendar feature. Thanks for sharing, Lizzie!
Great tips! Thanks for sharing!!
Sound like a great plan! Go focus on your task and thanks for popping by!
I am beating my breast in sorrow over number 7, as I actually opened this post 3 times today while getting distracted each time. For the rest of Lent I am giving up Multi-tasking. In fact, I am right now resisting the urge to check the calendar to see when the heck Lent started. I was a child the last time I gave something up for Lent. It just sounded very nostalgic. Thanks for the post. I printed it out!
Lent began Feb 17 and will end April 3 (looked that up for ya;) and I can't think of a better thing to give up than multi-tasking! LOL! It seems like a popular thing to give up for comment-ers on this post, so you will be in good company. Glad you found these tips useful 😉 Thanks for your input!
Did you know that people performing a task while intoxicated outperformed people doing the same task while multi-tasking?
Single-task all the way!
Wow, that's a pretty interesting study. What if you are intoxicated and single-tasking, does that mean you are SUPER productive? 😉
Smarty pants! NOOOO!!!!
Ok, good. Just checking 😉
Great post! Very smart…
Great Tips Britt, thank you for helping us MomPreneurs out!
Hi,
One of the ways that I have gained control of my to-do list is to never look at emails first. What I found was that when I started my day or my work session with an email check-in, I would get distracted and never to my to-do list.
Now I save emails for last and prioritize my other activities.
Thanks!
Julia
GREAT post!! These brought back a lot of the tips that I learned when I took a 3 day Franklin Covey course years ago. I fell of the bandwagon with my organizaitonal skills, but this post will definitley help me get back on track and get my new business off to a successful start! Thank you!! 🙂
Thank you so much for writing this. I have so needed some ideas/guidance along these lines. Thank you.
Thank you so much for writing this. I have so needed some ideas/guidance along these lines. Thank you.
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